th thing btwn boy and girl.

came across this blog and saw smth rather interesting. and I kinda agree to it too!
when boys want a breakup, they say :
1) We've drifted apart.
2) You'll find a better one. (Bullshit!) Its jus an excuse.
3) feelings fade.
4) I can't cope.
and etc.
come to think of it, most of th breakups when it was th guy who initiated it, mostly gave these reason.
haha why can't they just say 'I don't love you anymore'
Damn. Its kinda hurting to a gal. But, ohmy, reasons tht they gave just make a gal feel tht they're jus giving excuses!
Whereas gals. I think they're kinda more straightforward. They'd just ask for a breakup( I think so)
But, when gals say:
1) Feelings fade
2) Drifting apart.
Etc.
They actually said it bcos they care abt th r/s, yes? and they want to do smth t make it better instead of wanting a breakup. But guys'd normally think tht its th gals who doesn't love th guy as much anymore. Oh dear. Thts abt r/s. I realise tht, in a r/s there cnt be any cracks, bcos it'll be kinda unstable aft tht. But which r/s doesn't have? Well, I mean, once or twice, is still fine. But if th cracks gets deeper and more fragile, thn tht shows th th r/s is getting more fragile too! Sighh. but who wants tht, right? :(
If only every couple could sit down, face and talk every single problem and make up, thnn I think every r/s would be perfect!! :/ but, thts quite impossible, right? Thts th sad part :(
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